You're feeling a bit distracted right now, but you're worrying about things that really don't deserve your attention. These problems you are struggling with are molehills, not mountains. You've let little things grow in your imagination into big things—but they aren't, really. So let go of all of this anxiety! These are things you just can't do anything about, and they will take care of themselves soon enough, anyhow. In the meantime, focus on positive thoughts that will lighten your mood.
If you meet up with a frustrated friend today, be compassionate towards them. Don't be disappointed if they are not in the same frame of mind that you're in right now. You two can't always be on the same wavelength at the same time, so resist the urge to tease them. Any attempts you make to cheer them up will probably only make them more self-conscious, so just play it cool and let them be how they are. They'll appreciate it more than anything else.
It might be time for you to consider making a change in your career. Even if you're not feeling especially ambitious, you need to put some effort into deepening your skills, expanding your professional network, or just reminding yourself how good you truly are. The change you need could be a whole new position at work, or it could just require a new attitude. You have to set your goals in order to attain them. Pick a goal and stick to it today!
If you feel like you're working really hard to help others, but no one seems to be appreciating your efforts, don't think that gives you the right to stop helping people! It doesn't. After all, if helping others was your true motivation, then recognition is irrelevant. A good deed is truly a reward in itself—if that's not the case, and you're honest about the fact that you just want the positive feedback, then so be it. But you are missing out by not cultivating your more altruistic side.
Be careful not to overreact when someone says something that sounds rude to you—don't fly off the handle or get up in their face. This is something that is none of your business, and it shouldn't take up any of your time today. If you get involved in this drama, you'll only get hit with some stray verbal bullets. Instead, let these people deal with their difficulties on their own. You won't be any help—at best, you'll be a hindrance.
Your charm is legendary. It might make people enchanted by you, but it can't make them feel more for you than they do right now. Other people move at their own pace, and you have to accept that. You cannot rush anyone into feeling more or wanting more than they are ready for. Focus on the people who already know and appreciate you. Let anyone else come to their conclusions in their own time. Give them space to let them feel comfortable.
Before you can start doing anything today, you're going to need to formulate a plan. No matter where you want to go with your day, you'll get nowhere without knowing how you're going to do it. Regardless of whether your hopes for the day are ambitious or not, all the details can slip through the cracks far too easily if you don't use your organizational skills to wrangle them into place—and when details fall through the cracks, you end up getting frustrated!
Get more in touch with the expressive parts of yourself today. Explore new forms of art. Try your hand at one of them. You won't be a master right from the start, but just trying to express yourself in an unfamiliar way will ignite your imagination in a very exciting way. Surrounding yourself with the people you love is another way of getting your creative juices flowing, because all of their energy will give you some amazing and unique ideas.
Thinking big thoughts is important, but if your brain is always trying to wrap itself around major, life-changing ideas, how are you going to manage your day-to-day tasks successfully? Get back to reality, today. Focus on the details of living. Reconnect with that friend you haven't seen in a while. They want to know what you've been up to, and they have some exciting news to share with you. The real excitement of living lies in the tiny details, not in the dramatic goals you've been dreaming up.
Today is a great day to get your latest project started. You don't have to roll up your sleeves and get right to the nitty-gritty of it all just yet, but you should be able to get a lot of advance work done. Get in some serious research, put together a guest list or do whatever other preparation is appropriate. You'll be able to get way ahead of the game, which means the rest of the process should be very pleasant—even stress-free!
Have you been treating you bank account well? Is it a bit starved for attention? Before it's too late, take a look at what's been going on with your checking and savings accounts. There is a big disparity there that you need to fix. Perhaps you've been pushing your credit card to the limit? If so, do yourself a favor and live your life on a cash-only basis for at least one week. Remind yourself of the value of money—and the fact that once you spend it, it's gone.
If you have had your fill of partying and going out every night, you will be able to schedule some alone time soon. Make sure you have something planned so you can take full advantage of it! Do you want to treat yourself to a quiet dinner out? Rent your favorite movie and just chill at home? Splurge on a spa day? It's not selfish to spend money on yourself—it's actually very healthy! Just don't make a habit out of giving yourself whatever you want whenever you want it.